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wakaka..blogging from my class..when people giving presentation in front...
actually i din plan to blog at this very weird time..but after reading YUI's post,i have something to comment on this topic.
Do girls fall in love with their heart while guys fall in love with their brain??
there's this saying that boys are "visual animal"..the thing that attract them 1st will be the appearance of a girl.they say that they don't even wanna get to know the girl if he think she doesn't look hot at all...that's just wasting their time..but still,some of them wanna deny this fact that is already generally accepted by the XX group.
OK.back to girls..do girls fall in love with their heart??yea, i can say the answer is yes..the real reason for this was unknown to me..but i think that some situations lead to this phenomenon.
I m sure many of girls nowadays grow up with fairy tales from Disney..with all these princesses story like Cinderella, Snow White, Belle etc..In these stories,the princess will always found their 'true love' with a so-called-handsome prince that usually come in riding a white horse.all these stories left a very significant mark in our memories - true love are for the prince.. i know this sounds some kind stupid,but i think some young girls do still have this thinking..'prince' are the one they are waiting. I have this guy friend once said that he want to be with his girlfriend all the time,just be with her without going to work or going to do something else.He doesn't want to do any other things else other than staying with his darling wor...his than get lectured by us a few girls because of this silly thought..come on,this kind of things will only work on those naive little girl that still believe truly in fairy tales..who's going to pay for all the bills if the two of you are sitting at home doing nothing but seeing each other..u think u guys are inheritor of some billionaire or what..
the princess-and-prince story only will happen in fairy tales..if it happens to happen in real life,the probability is also much more less than 0.01..ok,so just pray real hard to all the Gods if you want this 'lucky' thing to happen on you..
And another thing that guys complaint to me is that the way girls reject them..
I really don't know what you guys want actually...You cant accept girls tell you that you are good but you guys are not suitable to be a couple at the very beginning..but then,u guys also don't like it when the girl who you like but doesn't like you doesn't give any respond and said that it is wasting your time..It is difficult to be a girl also,you know..
It is not compulsory for me to love you no matter how many things you did for me,you know..It's just the same to a guys what,you must not love the 1st girl that show her feelings on you...
Telling you you are good is just some polite way la..if not,u expect us girl to tell you that you are very lousy n cha n useless n hopeless when i reject you??at least we are trying to use some good words ma..let you feel better after the failure...
next..some guys also like to ask "Why she doesn't like me when i like her so much?"
the answer from me is"How I know ar ??then why you like her so much when she doesn't have any tiny feelings on you??" go figure out..its like a question with no answer...
maybe is because girls love with their heart and boys fall in love with their eyes..n people say what you see may be deceiving..so guys tend to believe that what they see with their eyes are lies...
come on guys..tell me..what you guys want for answer? what respond you prefer??i go kiss you when i want to reject you?? You guys are difficult also la..don't always blame us girls..
tell me the answer n i'll tell all the girls..then let you feel better next time..if not,i'll give you tissue to cry lo..
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
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You made me sound like I'm not over it....lol
ReplyDeleteOK, here comes rebuttals...ready?
Oops, started.
1. Majority of girls have this fantasy of getting their right prince...and yet the prince they want diverges far from what they want in the 1st place...that doesn't explain the limit or range of the males they prefer...why is it in the negative domain when there is a modulus sign? Dun tell me u add a negative in front of the modulus...sure tampar u...lol
ok, so my point is...there a new movie called, Shrek, that puts ogres in the good side and the Prince Charming as an obnoxious, vain, narcissist. In fact, i don't hate it, but my point is to potray a more reasonable domain rather than put imaginary numbers just to fit the equations...equally, set more realistic choices, nobody would blame you if u say u like hardcore men, rather than fantasise on princes who in real life look like orgres and act like them...
2. Lets face it...no matter what explaination you use, IT HURTS.
Doesn't mean that u said you're a good guy, that guy will feel any better. I rather be ripped to pieces on the spot than be put down softly by lies and deceit. It really is a stupid notion to even think of saying that word...ask any guy who got that nice guy treatment...they will tell u the very same thing...IT HURTS MORE... and that reasons out why we will say, if we are that good, why not pick us? In fact, there is no y-intersection for this...so just forget it and be honest...if he's hairy, say so, if he's ugly, say so. I think hate with dissapointment works better than being nice, and then make that guy pine for u coz since you've shown kindness...and kindness and dissapointment creates a craving...
3. OK, arguing on the third point...the part where the guy wanna do is to sit there with his spouse is totally agreeable...and yet, women would choose such stupid men who cannot snap out of his senses to the fact that he needs to feed his family?? I rather be with a man who wouold love me, and feed me, take care of me, rather than one who would look at me all they until one day, he'll feel so damn hungry that he'll eat me up...doesn't make sense at all...
4. Falling with your heart is not a crime..its just an increasing exponential function...and this is what happens with it...fallen angels...i really hate to make examples in real life...u know there's a guy in our school that had two gfs, threw one away in S'pore, and got another one that was my classmate? Men like that are a good riddance to them... and yet both of them fall for it... and i think one of them lost more than her heart...and don't get me started on the one that u know best... i did warn them about the risk of being with those men... and the functions performed exactly on the range i predicted... im not proud of my predictions...i rather wish they got better men and had better lives...even if it was not me... these are examples of women who follow hearts blindly...Since u know they are rotten, why be with them? Since u know all they have is just a sweet tongue...why the hell go with them and let them humiliate u on the spot? Dun tell me you think you'll change them...they know very well that is why it still comes possible...and they will do whatever within your range untill, they got what they want...In fact,it's none of my business...i know...but look at the price they paid...who had the last laugh?
Look, im not here to laugh at stupidity of women, or men... its just a very simple fact that women have to realise, and practise more often...be realistic, and really, consider all options before settling...don't settle at all if you can't get one...you won't die without love...you could kill yourself if u got hurt by these useless men...and people who care for you would hurt with more amplification...and all they can do is sit and watch.
PS. Now since i've presented my case, let me do some minor adjustments...
1. I would like to apologize for any slander made and any images scathered...i only said what i know and what happened...if it is not true...im happy to apologize and take the offensive part off....
2. I'm sorry to all women in this text... there is no fault in this... but the regularness of women repeating the same mistakes is annoying... what i am advising is for you all is to be as individuals and change yourselves, even if there is more women out there who don't listen and keep doing so. It takes time to change,and by changing, you're not only avoiding it yourself, but help others and i mean future generations avoid it...i really hate to see girls get hurt... especially those i care the most...
3. I'm sorry personally to you, weiqi...as i am hitting hard to someone u regard highly of... but not to me...i maintain the fact that this person is not of any worth at all to me...lesser of an animal, less more than a parasite...if you feel that this is something u cannot accept, u can happily kick me out...as i've maintained...neither lives while the other survives...
I'm sorry. But that is the fact.
With that, i rest my case.
PPS. Now, you've really made me not get over it...lol